Wendy replies: I think you've an anxiety about keeping up appearances. Free yourself from living up to anyone else's expectations. Meditate on being appreciated, and being with people who enjoy your company. Use the affirmation: I must live my life to please myself.
Q: In Need of a Boost! I have a recurring dream. I am in an plane. When I take off, I cannot get above the rooftops and I have to fly under bridges. ST
Wendy replies: You may be lacking motivation, energy and resources to achieve your aims. Make a list of five things you wish to achieve in the next year. Meditate on fulfilling your ambitions. Use the affirmation: I am a high flyer. I can be successful, courageous and strong.
Q: Dream Lover! I have a recurrent dream. I'm in a big house where everything is decorated in white. I'm dressed in white and a man in white sits on a white sofa. The man and I kiss and walk upstairs to the bedroom where we lie on a bed, just holding each other. The atmosphere is gentle and soft. It is a wonderful and romantic feeling we have together. SW
Wendy replies: The dream needs to be taken no further and no explanation is required. Just accept your good fortune. While you continue to have these dreams, you will awake refreshed and content each morning. Meditate on the rich feelings of peace and pleasure the dream creates. Use the affirmation: I have a quiet retreat from the problems of the world.
Q: Gone but not forgotten! I often dream I have lost something precious (my purse, documents or jewelry). Then, after a moment, I realise that I have never possessed the item in the first place. JM
Wendy replies: Many feel a loss for the children they have never had, for a home they never felt comfortable in;, or a marriage to someone they had nothing in common with. What were your early hopes and aspirations for yourself? Now is the time to seek joys you missed out on. Meditate on discovering something you did not know you had. Use the affirmation: I can replace lost happiness.
Q: Simply the Best: I meet a girl in a Karaoke bar. She is pretty and does a good rendition of my favourite Tina Turner track. We get on well and occasionally share the same bed together, but we curse and swear at each other, then laugh about it afterwards. LG
Wendy replies: This way of relating will not create enough harmony for a happy long term relationship. You must concentrate on offering co-operation, or your lady love may find another song bird who has real love to offer. Meditate on giving what you would like to receive. Use the affirmation: I please others through caring.
Q: Dear Wendy: Can you translate this distressing dream for me please? My father is elderly and in poor health. I had a dream that he wanted me to take him to work in my car. We were in the car park and unable to leave due to an exit barrier. Though it was difficult, I lifted the barrier and eventually managed to take him to work, even though it made me late for work myself. Later, I could not find where I had parked the car. KP
Dear KP: This dream expresses your loving devotion towards your father. You have helped him to function and keep independent, even though it has been inconvenient at times. As his dependency increases, it will become more difficult for you to find ways to continue to get somewhere with him. Do not be confused or upset but find some extra assistance for yourself. You might need to put some aspects of your life on hold. This is a decision only you can make.
Meditate on his gratitude for your efforts to ensure his wellbeing and welfare.
Use the affirmation: There is an answer to every problem.
Q: Dear Wendy: False Credentials: A man asks to be my dentist so I take my daughter with me to see him. I am shocked because he then tries to kidnap her. I instinctively know he will kill us both. It is him or us. When I go to work, I ask a friend to check if he is lying in wait. A man in a uniform arrives and I stab him with a fork. It is out he is just a delivery driver and is dying. Suddenly, I'm marrying the delivery man - he still has the fork scars in his neck. AM Gwent.
Dear AM: You have been badly betrayed by someone you trusted. You have totally lost your confidence in trusting anyone and may feel a deep sense of personal responsibility for something that was not your fault. Have you taken your rage out on those who try to bring you help? You may be seeking forgiveness. Try not to hurt those who do not deserve it and channel your anger into protecting your family. Meditate on real, genuine friendship. Use the affirmation: Love is not a word but a behaviour. I recognise whether someone loves me by the way they look after me.
First published: Your Dreams column 1999-2000 Sunday Mirror
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